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Reach Your Health Goals with Environmental Design

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April 2025. Life certainly has its rough patches, no? I’m in the middle of one right now.

It’s tempting to throw in the proverbial towel and just take a break from all the health goals when life laughs at your plans. And that certainly is a valid option. Sometimes taking a break is exactly what is needed to come back stronger.

But other times, continuing forward progress is what will help the most. Especially if you need a distraction from highly emotional times. (Hi, that’s me!). Keeping busy and staying focused on my goals is helping me to navigate this rough patch.

Enter environmental design. This is a strategy based on setting up your environment in a way that makes it easier to make the choice you decided to make when life wasn’t quite so rough. And if this resonates with you, be sure to check out my blog on how to never fail at your goals again.

I’m also sharing a simple, healthy, and delicious recipe for the hummus wraps I have been loving for quite a minute now. It’s best for those who can put together a wrap when it’s time to eat. That way the wrap doesn’t get soggy from the ingredients. It’s also vegan, but don’t let that scare you away. You can always add some meat!

“Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.” – The great Arthur Ashe 

Yours in good health,
Alexia Lewis, RD
Master’s Level Nutritionist
Registered Dietitian
Certified Health Coach

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What’s On My Table

Ever wondered what a dietitian eats? Surprise! It is not only super-healthy foods. This dietitian eats for nutrition and for pleasure. You can too. 

I’m having a food jag with my hummus wrap for lunch. #noshame. With just a little meal-prepping, I’m enjoying quick-to-make lunches that are nutrition-rich and delicious!

Colorful picture of hummus wrap on a kitchen counter.

The meal-prepping part:

  • Peel away the tunic (that’s the papery coating!) and slice one Vidala or another sweet onion.
  • Wash, remove seeds, and slice one or two bell peppers into strips.
  • Wash and cut one zucchini or yellow squash in half, then cut into large matchsticks.
  • Sauté these vegetables until they are cooked to your preference.
  • Store in the refrigerator for 3-4 days and grab them when it’s time to make lunch.

You can use any vegetables you like that will cook down to soft so they will roll up into a wrap. Cutting into slices or large matchsticks works best. 

The make-a-lunch part:

  • Get a burrito-sized flour tortilla. Heat using stovetop if not bendy. Do not get too close to the stove element or flame!
  • Spread your favorite hummus on one half of the wrap. May I recommend Lantana’s Sriracha Carrot Hummus – *chef’s kiss* (no affiliation).
  • Sprinkle nutritional yeast on the hummus for a little more protein and a little bit of a cheesy flavor. I use about a teaspoon, but there are no rules here.
  • Get those prepped veggies out of the fridge and place them on top of the hummus and nutritional yeast. It takes a little practice to get the right amount of veggies so the wrap isn’t sad, but not so much that it won’t wrap up or stay together.
  • Add a side of fruit. I love blackberries and fresh pineapple these days.

You can add meat or legumes like chickpeas, or tofu to boost the protein.

Give this recipe a try and let me know what you think! I would also love your suggestions for ways to jazz it up! Sometimes we all need a little #foodspiration.

What I’ve Been Coaching On

You can catch a glimpse of what my coaching style is like in this section, where I share some of what I’m working with my clients on. 

This is based on my experience with my patients and is provided solely for educational purposes. It may NOT be appropriate for you. Please check with your healthcare provider before making changes based on the information provided here.

Here we are just over 3 months into the new year. So… how’s it going with your health goals?

The motivation that you felt in January is waning and things you could do easily in January are likely getting more difficult to do. #truestory. Life starts life-ing and we tell ourselves that we must grit our teeth, power through, suck it up, and get it done.

Yah. No. Willpower is not always the answer.

There is some cool research on willpower. It used to be thought that your willpower runs out over the day and with every decision you make. Now, they are finding that this is the case for some people, but not for others. Read up on this along with tips to increase your willpower.

I still stand by needing to use willpower a lot means you will not be able to maintain what you are trying to do for the long-term. It’s a great way to get started or a goal for that event in a few weeks. But if it’s your lifetime plan… oh, how exhausting to always be pushing that hard and likely having that negative internal voice beat you down.

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So, let’s talk about something that can help boost your willpower: environmental design. This is the idea that you build the environment around you (the triggers) to make the choice you want to make (the goal) easier.

Want some examples?

  • If your goal is to eat more veggies, it will be easier if they are washed and cut and stored front and center when you open the fridge. If that slice of cake is there instead, it is so much harder to eat the veggies.
  • If your goal is to take a walk after dinner, it will be easier if you put your walking shoes on before you sit down to eat and hang your jacket over your chair. If those things are back in the closet, well, out of sight, out of mind.
  • If your goal is to eat more regularly throughout the day, it will be easier if you have pre-planned what to eat and set a reminder when the time comes to eat.

Make sense?

At a minimum, assess your environment using the topics below. And if you want to do a deeper dive, this article on building an environment that supports you is filled with tips. Or, you know, reply to this email to see if I am licensed in your state then schedule an appointment with me through Nourish. Most people have no out-of-pocket costs.

People.  

Who supports you? Stick with them as much as you can.

Who doesn’t support you or takes you into situations with lots of temptations? Even if it’s a happy hour friend, alcohol lowers your food inhibitions so that seemingly harmless situation can drastically change your food choices.

For these people, what conversation do you need to have with them? Plan for it: what will you say, practice saying it, decide what they can do to best support you? Offer to support them with something too!

Hopefully, this will not apply BUT if these conversations could be potentially dangerous for you emotionally or physically, please seek appropriate guidance, support, and assistance. Do not endanger yourself – better safe than sorry. And getting help from a mental health therapist on boundary setting can make all the difference.

Start by asking your medical provider or insurance company representative for their recommended therapist. There are also some resources for the USA include Psychology Today’s directory, and there are many app-based services too like TalkSpace or BetterHelp. (No affiliations with any of these).

Places & Situations.

Think though where you go and the situations you typically encounter.

Ask yourself:

  • Which ones support your goals, and which ones derail you?
  • At home or in other places, what do you need to change?
  • Is your schedule making it more difficult, how could you change your schedule?
  • Are you going to social events that are full of temptation, how can you change your actions and choices at these events?

Things.

What things around you could you get rid of or put away somewhere to better support you?

What things that do support you can you put within view and make easy to reach? This is where moving the vegetables to the front of the fridge comes into play.

Try this out as an affirmation this week: When I set myself up for success, anything is possible!

Now, get going! Take a break from those gut-it-out goals and build your environment to support you.

Medical Nutrition Therapy

Yes, RDs can help with designing your environment to support your nutrition goals, and lots of other behavior change strategies! You may be surprised at how much this can help.

My main jams are heart health, breaking food rules to improve people’s relationship with food, and weight loss including supporting those on weight loss medication and stopping binge eating (but not accepting diagnosed binge eating disorder).

If you are ready, let’s do it!

  • Reply to this email to ask if I am licensed in your state.
  • Go to my provider page, choose a date/time and start the scheduling process. NOTE: Even if I’m not licensed in your state, click to my page, then click Find Your Dietitian and filter using the drop downs at the top of the page.
  • One of the first screens will let know if your health insurance is accepted by Nourish.
  • Before you finish the booking process, you will enter your insurance information and get an estimate of the expected costs.
  • And 95% of people have no out-of-pocket costs!!

And, of course, you can reply to this email if you have questions or want to be hooked up with another amazing RD at Nourish. I’m happy to help! 

About Alexia Lewis RD

Hi there! I’m Alexia and I believe in science, humor, and delicious food.

I believe you shouldn’t sacrifice your mental health in pursuit of better physical health. You deserve to be both happy and healthy. You don’t have to choose just one. I’ve been working with people to improve this balance while still meeting their food and lifestyle goals since 2012.

I am a master’s level nutritionist who is also a registered and licensed dietitian in multiple states in the USA, a certified personal trainer, and certified health coach. I also invested in becoming a culinary nutritionist and weight management specialist. In other words, I got you.

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References:

BBC. The Mindset That Brings Unlimited Willpower, published January 3, 2023.

Vitality Nutrition. How To Build An Environment That Supports Your Goals + Helps You Get “In Control” Of Your Cravings, published June 7, 2022.

A Gift: Enjoy the Holidays without Sabotaging Your Health

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I am beyond excited to announce a gift to you from me and N.E.W. Motivation Coaching. Because I am so unhappy with the Diet Culture / Weight Loss wheels turning as we come to the end of another year, I am giving away – yes free – both a video course and a booklet this year. 

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Unfortunately, December is a month when many feel overwhelmed with stress and give up on their health goals believing they will return to healthy habits in January when they make their resolutions.

There is some good in this actually.

If you look at the research on willpower, it indicates that people are not as successful at white-knuckling it / sucking it up / using their willpower to [insert goal here: stick to their meal plan, exercise daily, go to sleep on time, etc] when they are either stressed or depressed.

The trick is to manage the stress or depression first and then re-focus on health goals. If you are stressed in December, then relaxing on your health goals may be 100% appropriate. 

Giving up entirely to eat like a jerk and couch surf for 4-6 weeks, however, can result in a pretty big back-slide on health complete with weight gain and loss of cardiovascular endurance and muscle mass/strength! Oh, and an increase in blood pressure, cholesterol, blood sugars, and those other health concerns that are totally impacted by your daily food and activity choices.

So, what do we do?

I’ve got an idea: Find a way to both enjoy the holidays and keep some focus on your health goals. It is so very possible to do with a few tricks & tips up your sleeve!

Planning

The free course gives you 5 realistic tips to coast through the holidays while staying true to your health – and weight – goals as well as 3 worksheets and a health coach walks you through making your personal strategy in the videos so you can enjoy the holidays without sabotaging your health!

You also get tips for making traditional holiday foods healthier AND a list of which herbs and spices pair best with which foods so you can reduce fat and sodium without sacrificing flavor.

This course is designed for:

– Dieters who are tired of the repeated cycles of weight loss and regain who want to find peace with food, activity, and themselves so they can improve health and weight

– Adults with – or at risk for – chronic lifestyle diseases who want to find realistic and enjoyable ways to approach lifestyle changes so they can reduce their risk for chronic diseases and live a healthier life.

– People who are confused or overwhelmed with all the conflicting rules and information about nutrition and exercise who want to sort it out so they can find a lasting, realistic plan that works in their unique lives.

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I offered this information last year as an in-person class and just didn’t get to share it with enough people! So this year we are giving it away in order to get this good info into the hands of more people who need this type of support and guidance during the season.

Check it out – try some tips before the next big holiday meal in just a few short weeks – and share this with anyone you think may benefit from it! There is no limit on how many freebies we give away so share it as much as you would like to!

Here is the link text: https://new-motivation-coaching.teachable.com/p/our-favorite-5-tips-to-enjoy-the-holidays-without-sabotaging-your-health

So you know, this is only 50% of the tips we share in our Love Yourself Healthy Plan. We will be sharing more on that soon!

Yes, you can eat the pecan pie AND be healthy.

Willpower – Psssshaw.

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On average, I talk to about 30-40 people every week who are working on reaching their health goals using food and nutrition. Sure, we talk about food and calories and all that fun dietitian-stuff; but more often than not, the issue is not what or how to eat. Google yourself a nutrition question and you’ll get everything from solid evidence-based advice to some crazy woo-promoting ideas. Information on what or how to eat is everywhere.

The issue is putting that knowledge into practice. The issue is in the decision at 3:00 pm when your tummy rumbles and you frown at the bag of cucumbers and hummus you have packed for your snack and start thinking about that vending machine down the hall. The issue is in that coffee meeting when you really want that mocha frap with extra whip instead of a plain iced coffee. The issue is in having to work late and now it is 7pm and you feel like you’ve earned those drive-through fries even though you’ve got an already prepped dinner waiting on you at home.

How do you make the more healthful choice when you don’t want to?

You tell yourself – and you tell me – that you just have to make yourself do it.

Oh no. Do not rely on being able to MAKE yourself do something if you really want to success. It is ridiculous to use willpower for food choices.

Think about it. You see an amazing new whatever in the store and you want it. You rely on will power to walk by and then you’re done, you leave the store and it’s no longer easy to get that whatever. Now imagine that whatever is yummy food in your pantry and that store is your living room. You don’t get the benefit of leaving and having the decision be behind you. You have to make the decision to ignore that yummy food about, oh, every 60 seconds. I don’t think that many people could do that – okay, maybe for one night – but for every minute of every night? No way!

We know some things about willpower that can help us. Here is what the evidence reflects:

  1. Willpower is limited. You only get so much and then it’s gone.
  1. Willpower is used up over the day. We chip away at willpower with stress, emotions, and all those little decisions we make until there is none left to keep you away from that yummy food in the pantry by the end of the day.
  1. Willpower resets every night – great news! This is why you can wake up every morning and tell yourself: Self, today is THE day that I make it happen!

My advice is don’t set yourself up to have to rely on willpower. Instead do whatever you have to do to make the healthy choice the easier choice.

  • Modify your environment so you see the healthy choices more regularly
  • Plan and prepare for meals/snacks
  • Carry snacks with you when away from home
  • Have a plan for the gas station stop or a drive through or that day-long meeting
  • Plan any tempting situations for morning when you have the most willpower. Need to catch up with a friend? How about a breakfast date instead of happy hour?
  • Use mornings to plan, shop, exercise – do whatever it is that is the hardest thing for you in the mornings!

Just to be sure though, practice saying no to temptations and people just in case you have to draw on some of that limited willpower. My hope for you is that you don’t resort to “I just have to do it” and rely on willpower because then it’s a crap-shoot.

How will you change your environment or social situations so you can be successful without relying on will power?

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